Yeah - that striped shark is a Brown Banded Bamboo.
Is it possible that the shark is coming from eastern Australia.
Given your descriptions - basically like a Brown banded Bamboo, Gray in color with darker gray bands, and cooler water species than the bamboos.
It kind of sounds like either a Blind Shark (Brachaelurus waddi), or a Blue-gray Carpet Shark(Heteroscyllium colcloughi), - both of which are found in eastern Australia(Queensland & New South Wales).
Both species tend to prefer water temps about 63-73F (17-23 C). Both tend to be gray with gray bands (at least in some stage of their developement).
The Blue-gray or Colclough's Carpet Shark grows to be about 30-32"(76-82 cm) long. While the Blind Shark grows to be about 47" (120 cm) long.