I don't think you need to elevate one or the other. If you connected one to the other with two pipes, one with a submerged pump in one tank and just a submerged open channel on the other, the feed from the pump would raise the water level and pressure on the other pipe/channel on the output side, and water would rush through the open channel to equalize pressure between the tanks.
The problem would be if that open channel were to get clogged somehow. You would need at least one more channel to serve as an emergency overflow, located right above the waterline, so water would flow through there instead of flooding if the submerged channel is clogged.
This.
3 pipes connecting the tank. Two below the water line, one above. The one above does nothing, unless one below gets clogged. It's your safety. Of the two below, put a pump on one and the other is a gravity fed return.
The bigger your pump, the bigger the gravity fed return needs to be. But your pump doesn't need to be huge. a 400gph pump will swap the tank volume once per 3 hours. Half that would do what you're looking for.
The tank receiving water from the pump will be the high pressure side. It's surface will be higher than the other tank. But your 1200 gallon tank will have such a vast surface area the elevation difference will be minimal. You're welcome to do the calculations, but it's going to be a fraction of an inch.
There are some functional risk. If you put a prefilter on the gravity fed line, it will add resistance and increase the elevation difference between the tanks. That we can't calculate as it increases as the prefilter clogs. And open pipe is the safer bet. But that will allow little fish to get through. If that's an acceptable loss in your eyes, I doubt your Aba Aba will mind.
But... you'll still have the third pipe as a safety. So it doesn't matter. But plan like you don't have a safety, and always have a safety.
Lastly, if you put them at different elevations you'll regret it for the rest of it's life. It'll look esthetically wrong. Even if you can live with it your wife will hate it. It'll make my neck twitch, but that doesn't affect you.