Below is a video of wild caught Acara's (Andinoacara coerleopunctaus) guarding a spawn, to help show gender differences in the Andinoacara genus.
Note as Ryan pointed out, the male is the larger of the two, and his profile is steeper, yet his body is more streamlined.
The female, a bit boxier in body shape, and when guarding fry, her melanin type colors are darker.
If it is your intention to have yours spawn, I would pick up a few more to allow them a variety of partners to select from.
In my tank below, there are a dozen, and the pair have taken over about 1/3 of the 180 gallon footprint as their spawning territory.
Flashlight Andinoacara fry