Since you don't want the XL Nuchal hump, maybe go for a Red Texas Cichlid instead of a FH.
They are vicious and probably a lot more durable than an FH.
The Red Texas has the same general shape as a FH, has vibrant colors, much smaller nuchal hump.
I kept an unfaded Red Texas for several years. He was a beautiful fish, closely resembling a Kamfa.
Here's a pic of him.