New BD Stingray - Only active at night and eating little - Help!

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FishkeeperSyd

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Hey guys,

I’ve done a lot of reading and research before buying a BD stingray. I carefully picked out the store, checked out the stingrays in person, waited a week, then went back to the store to observe him for a long time, especially how he eats the pellets, before finally buying him.

I have a 6x2x2.5 ft tank with fine sand, just two pieces of driftwood, a freshwater sump with a filter sock, Seachem Purigen, a lot of bio media, carbon, a nitrate pad, a 3000 l/h pump, a refugium, and two air stones in the sump. Also running is an FX4 filter and a wavemaker. Water parameters: pH 7.4–7.6, 0 ammonia, 0 nitrite, <5 ppm nitrate. The water is crystal clear and the sand free of debris.

Tankmates:
11 medium to large Silver Dollars

Since I got the stingray, he’s been almost completely inactive during the day. Sometimes he’s buried for up to 6 or 8 hours, only making small movements, just a few centimeters, before burying himself again. He only eats if I target-feed him with a tube and place pellets directly in front of his disc, and even then, he doesn’t eat much.

I set up a camera, and at night he’s much more active. He swims up and down the glass, explores the tank, though not the extreme “dancing” behavior you sometimes see from really happy rays, but still, he’s fairly active. As soon as the sun rises (I turned off the tank light on the second day), he buries himself again and stays that way until it’s completely dark again.

He breathes calmly, isn’t skinny, and has no unusual spots or visible injuries.

My question:

Is this behavior normal? Is there anything I can improve about the tank, the environment, or anything else?

Attached a photo form the shop where I bought her, in my tank with sand and my tank setup. Her colour hasn’t changed. That’s just the lighting)

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I am no expert as I have only kept rays for not quite a year. But I had a BD male that refused to eat. I reached out to wednesday13 wednesday13 via PM as he has had a lot of experience w rays and this is a quote off his response;
“Rays are def. some of the hardest fish to break in my experience. Even moving them across the room they'll sulk and not eat for a week.”
Since you saw yours eating pellets at the store he may just need some more time to settle in. Do you have the same pellets the store used? I had some challenges w 1 of my other rays switching from massivore to NF carnivore, but were there now. My rays, which ranges from disc width 14-20”, never bury or hide but I know that’s pretty common. Maybe more so in younger more vulnerable rays 🤷🏻‍♂️
And they are nocturnal hunters/feeders. Have you tried any raw shrimp pieces or tilapia? My 4 pound both.
BTW, he will out grow a 24” wide tank in a year or 2 😅
Hopefully he turns around for ya soon 👍🏼
 
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How long has it been? Its pretty bright and the fish most likely just needs to settle in. Continue feeding 1-3 times a day to keep it plump. The back should b the tallest part of a ray. It looks thin in the store pic, i can see hip bones. Do whatever u need to to keep it eating and gaining weight. Id still consider it a “pup” and it needs fed more often then an adult to keep weight on. Make sure its actually eating and not just chewing and spitting the pellet out. Feed it every time u walk by if u have to with the tube lol… again, Its back should be higher than the eyes, no hip bones showing. It can eat alot more than u think. If its not taking pellets hit it with night crawlers. Ray that size can eat 6 crawlers a day every day. Offer 1-2 at a time spaced through the day. Rays are super hardy with weight on. There pretty fragile when thin tho. Be persistent. Offer food often and remove anything uneaten after a bit. Repeat…
Id turn the lights down and most definitely cover that tank with full lids. Rays are jumpers and it can fly right outta there pretty easily.
 
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How long has it been? Its pretty bright and the fish most likely just needs to settle in. Continue feeding 1-3 times a day to keep it plump. The back should b the tallest part of a ray. It looks thin in the store pic, i can see hip bones. Do whatever u need to to keep it eating and gaining weight. Id still consider it a “pup” and it needs fed more often then an adult to keep weight on. Make sure its actually eating and not just chewing and spitting the pellet out. Feed it every time u walk by if u have to with the tube lol… again, Its back should be higher than the eyes, no hip bones showing. It can eat alot more than u think. If its not taking pellets hit it with night crawlers. Ray that size can eat 6 crawlers a day every day. Offer 1-2 at a time spaced through the day. Rays are super hardy with weight on. There pretty fragile when thin tho. Be persistent. Offer food often and remove anything uneaten after a bit. Repeat…
Id turn the lights down and most definitely cover that tank with full lids. Rays are jumpers and it can fly right outta there pretty easily.
It has been like this for five days now, since I got him on Saturday.

Thank you for your response. I really appreciate the tips. The photo of my tank was taken the night before I got the stingray. I turned the lights down on the first day and since day two, the lights have been off and the lids have been on the tank.

I’m happy to follow all your feeding recommendations and I will pick up some nightcrawlers this evening. However, I’ve encountered a new issue or maybe this is the root of the problem. Yesterday (day four), I noticed an ammonia spike of 1ppm. Nitrites were at 0, and nitrates were 5ppm. I immediately did a 75% water change, dosed Seachem Safe at the detoxifying level, and added Stability as if I were starting a new cycle.

Twelve hours later, ammonia is still at 0.5ppm, and I’m really worried about the ray.

Could you please advise how to handle this ammonia spike?

Should I do another large water change or continue detoxifying with Seachem Safe until the ammonia naturally drops as I normally would do a fish-in-cycle?

Any tips on how to stabilise the tank and protect the ray would be hugely appreciated.
 
“Could you please advise how to handle this ammonia spike?

Should I do another large water change or continue detoxifying with Seachem Safe until the ammonia naturally drops as I normally would do a fish-in-cycle?”

This is what I would do. If you continually remove the ammonia with water changes your bacterial colony will increase very slowly. I’m not sure about Safe, but I know Prime converts ammonia to ammonium for about 24hours, so I would dose daily until you’re at 0 then do a large water change and you should be good to go 👍🏼
 
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