I'm not trying to convince anyone that they need to use a grounding probe, I just think the argument against them (as in what if your GFCI fails?) is a rather weak one.
The reality is the chances of a heater (or other aquarium equipment) failing is FAR greater than a GFCI failing, especially a GFCI that is tested on a regular basis. Heaters fail all the time, due to the fact that most of them are manufactured in China for under $10. They can last years, or fail straight out of the box. I have read hundreds of cases of aquarium heaters failing over the years, experienced a few myself, yet never once read about a hobbyist having a GFCI fail on them. I have GFCI's that have been installed for longer than you've been in the electrical trade, and not a single one has ever failed. How many aquarium heaters have you seen hold up that long?
In my case I kill the power before performing any tank maintenance so getting electric shock from my tank is a non issue. But I'm not the only person living here.
If/when a heater begins to fail/crack, such as one of my Stealths did last year, I want that heater removed before it has a chance to blow apart. Short of pulling each heater out on a daily basis, and inspecting them with a magnifying glass, for myself personally, a ground probe/GFCI combo is the safest bet.
As far as getting a little tingle in your finger tip ....... people have died from electrocution due to faulty aquarium heaters. It doesn't happen often, but there are confirmed cases. I believe that a single 200W heater draws approx 800 milliamps (give or take), respiratory paralysis can set in at as low as 20 mA, 50-75 mA is usually going to knock one on their ass, or worse, and at 100 mA ventricular fibrillation of the heart occurs which usually results in death. Also, ones skin resistance can vary from 1000 ohms for wet skin, to over 500,000 ohms for dry skin, and even an individuals body chemistry has been shown to have a significant impact on how electric current affects an individual. What might give you a good zap in your hand, could send the next guy to the hospital, or worse.
Just some food for thought for anyone that thinks that sticking their hand into a glass box full of water with a faulty piece of electrical equipment will only result in a little tingle in your finger.