Hello everyone. I recently joined the forum as I have moved from planted community tanks into cichlids. In particular, i have 2 juvenile dovii. They have just reached a point that i can clearly identify one as a male and one as a female. Probably around the 5 month age mark, still small though.
My questions refers to their behavior.
First off, they are extremely shy. So much so, when i put food in the tank they simply will not touch it. To prevent them from starving to death i literally set up a cardboard wall with thin slits in front of the aquarium. I hide behind the cardboard wall and can only watch them through the slits. Even then when one of them comes up front they catch a glimpse of my eyes and run. Damn theyre smart. My question is, should i remove all hiding spots and force them to be uncomfortable in order to teach them there is nothing to be afraid of?
People say theyre so shy because as younglings their parents eat them. Well, the same is true for almost all fish but ive bough Jag fry and convict fry and have never had a problem like this.
These juveniles are around the 4 inch mark...but the female is already doing the mating dance for the male. Has anyone seen this before at such a young age? He is not interested at all but it was just odd to me.
Lastly, i was curious about why they seem to pick a spot on the glass and bite at it over and over....i want to assume theyre fighting their reflection but specifically i am curious if theyre doing this out of stress? I currently have them in a 50 gallon aquarium with pool filter sand substrate. A marineland LED that isnt too bright. I have an aquaclear 110 and aquaclear 70. One filter has activated carbon, the other has purigen.
The tank is fully cycled and nitrites are 0ppm, ammonia is 0ppm and nitrate is usually around 10 to 20.
I do 2 60% water changes a week...sometimes 3 if i notice theyve missed a lot of food from feedings.
I just wanted to ask some experienced keepers what to do.... if i keep hiding behind cardboard in order to get them to eat they may never learn to be comfortable with people. I feel like them hiding is reinforcing their behavior because they attribute that to surviving. I think a big mistake that i didnt forsee was setting up their growout tank in thr far back guest bedroom where there is no traffic. I wish i had set them up in the living room where people pass by all day.
Anyone else ever feel they can tell when youve made eye contact with them? Ive never had a fish be able to tell...if i have my head facing the tank but am looking at the male, he looks like he is about to cry. If i keep my head facing him but move my eyes, in my peripheral vision i see his entire demeanor change and he doesnt try to hide as bad. After 30 seconds he will come a tad closer out of curiosity. When i make eye contact with him he darts back. Same with the female.
I just saw both of them swim right up to the glass because i am looking down at my phone to type this. I didnt move my head but only my eyeballs and they darted. You could argue that it could just be the movement but ive had my hand by the glass and have moved my fingers and played rock paper scissors without it scaring them anymore. So odd.
Even though theyre under 6 mo. Old they have so much personality and are so intelligent. Sometimes i pull up a dovii video from youtube and put the phone agaibst the glass... they gather around the phone and watch it like its tv hahaha.
So sorry about the rant. I sincerely appreciate anyone who is still reading this and has any info or experience about their behavior... like i said i know theyre not eating enough. Their stomachs are always concave and their growth has been extremely slow. Would adding some aquariun salt or something help with their stress?
Thanks again guys, so much, i look forward to being a part of the forums!!
My questions refers to their behavior.
First off, they are extremely shy. So much so, when i put food in the tank they simply will not touch it. To prevent them from starving to death i literally set up a cardboard wall with thin slits in front of the aquarium. I hide behind the cardboard wall and can only watch them through the slits. Even then when one of them comes up front they catch a glimpse of my eyes and run. Damn theyre smart. My question is, should i remove all hiding spots and force them to be uncomfortable in order to teach them there is nothing to be afraid of?
People say theyre so shy because as younglings their parents eat them. Well, the same is true for almost all fish but ive bough Jag fry and convict fry and have never had a problem like this.
These juveniles are around the 4 inch mark...but the female is already doing the mating dance for the male. Has anyone seen this before at such a young age? He is not interested at all but it was just odd to me.
Lastly, i was curious about why they seem to pick a spot on the glass and bite at it over and over....i want to assume theyre fighting their reflection but specifically i am curious if theyre doing this out of stress? I currently have them in a 50 gallon aquarium with pool filter sand substrate. A marineland LED that isnt too bright. I have an aquaclear 110 and aquaclear 70. One filter has activated carbon, the other has purigen.
The tank is fully cycled and nitrites are 0ppm, ammonia is 0ppm and nitrate is usually around 10 to 20.
I do 2 60% water changes a week...sometimes 3 if i notice theyve missed a lot of food from feedings.
I just wanted to ask some experienced keepers what to do.... if i keep hiding behind cardboard in order to get them to eat they may never learn to be comfortable with people. I feel like them hiding is reinforcing their behavior because they attribute that to surviving. I think a big mistake that i didnt forsee was setting up their growout tank in thr far back guest bedroom where there is no traffic. I wish i had set them up in the living room where people pass by all day.
Anyone else ever feel they can tell when youve made eye contact with them? Ive never had a fish be able to tell...if i have my head facing the tank but am looking at the male, he looks like he is about to cry. If i keep my head facing him but move my eyes, in my peripheral vision i see his entire demeanor change and he doesnt try to hide as bad. After 30 seconds he will come a tad closer out of curiosity. When i make eye contact with him he darts back. Same with the female.
I just saw both of them swim right up to the glass because i am looking down at my phone to type this. I didnt move my head but only my eyeballs and they darted. You could argue that it could just be the movement but ive had my hand by the glass and have moved my fingers and played rock paper scissors without it scaring them anymore. So odd.
Even though theyre under 6 mo. Old they have so much personality and are so intelligent. Sometimes i pull up a dovii video from youtube and put the phone agaibst the glass... they gather around the phone and watch it like its tv hahaha.
So sorry about the rant. I sincerely appreciate anyone who is still reading this and has any info or experience about their behavior... like i said i know theyre not eating enough. Their stomachs are always concave and their growth has been extremely slow. Would adding some aquariun salt or something help with their stress?
Thanks again guys, so much, i look forward to being a part of the forums!!