yellow looks like CPVC cement so may be wrong type there. when i did plumbing professionally yellow was always for CPVC
do not use the PTFE plumbers paste on those bulkheads. thats the reason youre overtightening them. use tape instead , if you need it, it wont let you sink the lock threads past where they belong.+ when i did plumbing we used the pipe dope on black iron and on threaded brass. never pvc