Chocolate cichlid sex

[dog uts1973]

Male or female

 

[jake37]

Top is my female, bottom is the maleView attachment 1263268 View attachment 1263269

Do all males have a spot in the middle. I have 4 of them around 6 inches so not exactly mature yet but i noticed that this one and hte first one in this thread males both had spots in the middle and one of mine has a spot and while young it has been acting more bossy than the other three which seem to lack that lateral spot.