I love DE filters! I started with a Diatom D1 filter a friend gave me. The results are phenomenal!
This is the DE powder I use:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/Swimming-Po...618?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item2a130e92ca 25 pounds for $20 with free delivery. For the Diatom XL this amount of powder should easily last 5 life times!
While the Diatom XL filters are simply awesome, they do not have very efficient motors. This is the major reason to not run the filters continuously. When I used my Diatom D1 (less screen area than your XL) on my 110g tank it would usually run a couple of days (After a water change which would stir up the gunk and cloud the water) before the flow slowed considerably.
You can turn off the motor, shake the filter to knock off the powder and then turn the motor back on to expose a new layer of the DE powder. But I would usually just put the filter away until the next months water change.
Stir up your tank very well so the water is near opaque with debris then marvel at how quick it turns perfectly clear when you turn the Diatom XL on!
P.S. I stopped using my Diatom D1 only because I liked it so much that I replaced it with a Hayward EC40 pool filter (In my signature) that I do run continuously.