I have one fire eel that I keep with some central and South American cichlids and some bichir. Fire eels and eels in general can be touch and go. From my experience stress comes easy to these fish. But you can follow a few tips to help establish them.
1. Sandy substrate or very fine gravel. These guys love to burrow, so a planted tank will not be possible with these guys.
2. Hiding places. Eels are very skittish and they love to hide. Pvc pipe caves and decorations with small nooks will help an eel feel like it has hiding place.
3. Subdued lighting. These fish like it a little darker, I won’t say this is 100% necessary, but establishing the eel is where this advice comes in. Once they are established they are pretty tough customers.
4. High filtration. It goes without saying these guys need clean water. Canister filters are a must if space is an issue, but if possible use a sump. A sump if done right can highly oxygenate water and are very easy to maintain.
5. Frozen food and treats. People have claimed to pellet trained their eels, I don’t know if it is possible from my experience. These guys are the pickiest eaters. I have had mine for 4 years and worms seem to be the standing order. But every once in a while, when I’m with my wife at the Asian market, I will buy a few prawns or some squid, and treat my eel to something unique. Just make sure to cut it up into chunks they are readily able to swallow. Yep this will yuck up your water in short order, which places me back at the previous reason... high filtration.
If you get one established, rest assured he will be yours forever. They are personable and desire interaction with their keepers. Hand feeding is easy with these guys. Watching them and their eyes, you will see a fish with some real intelligence.