i have found that pond liners can sometimes put moisture into the wood and rot it out, my father works at the MN Zoo aquarium department and on their large concrete dolphin aquarium they used an epoxy paint
YOu missed probably the best one.. Sanitred... it stays elastic and it eliminates the need for silicon because they have a primer that will make it permanently bond to acrylic or glass. Its also as easy to use as just painting it on.