From what I've read over the years, and from my own experience, giant gouramis are one of those fish that definitely buck the trend regarding behaviour. Each individual fish has their own character and traits. You can get peaceful puppy dog types (like mine), or complete brutes that really aren't tolerant of much.
Mine did show signs of unhappiness, if that's the right word to use, when he began to outgrow his 180 (6x2x2). I put it down to the tank size. At the time I never considered anything else. Could he have been unhappy because of something else? Who knows.
Then we see
12 Volt Man
giant gourami that is a lot bigger than mine, and I believe is in a slightly smaller tank than mine was when he had his thrashing episodes. And yet, as far as I'm aware his GG seems to be thriving, is very interactive, eats very well and looks healthy.
One important factor to take into consideration with GG's is their activity levels. They're not the most active fish and so maybe, just maybe, you could say that even though they grow huge they can just be as happy in a tank that most people, who aren't experienced with them, would consider way too small.
I used to look at 12 volt man's GG and think, that just looks wrong, yet his regular postings of his beast have swayed me somewhat over time.
I will say one thing though. I think that your newly acquired GG does need something bigger than that 90g!!
As for ongoing care, once you upgrade tank size, keep your water pristeen at all times, keep on top of your maintanance and feed it a varied diet. At 12 years old it possibly has many many years left in it yet, if cared for properly. Enjoy it because these fish can be very rewarding, like little puppy dogs......unless you are unlucky and get one of those that turn into a rottweiler!!