Official Off Topic Discussion Thread #1

[FMA4ME]

hello; If fat men in magazines does come about I figure it will not last long. Is this some new version of PC talk?


Hello; I heard the idea is that regular women (average women) get depressed because they don't measure up to the magazine or movie women. Well I figured out real quick and a long time ago that I never measured up to movie leading men or butter sales men. I learned to live with it. Not so bad for men if we happen to be less than good looking somehow.


Hello; I'm sorry but I have tried to watch a couple of her movies. I just do not like the character she projects.


hello; I understand but is that PC?

Lol, not PC. But you do understand, and you have an idea of my true thoughts, that's more important to me, rather than just being some drone.

 

[Hendre]

Women are rather self conscious, so magazine and ad women can put a lot of stress on. Can see it in my girlfriend because she's pretty mini being a foot and 50lbs smaller than me, not quite like many magazine ladies...

I think the fat thing is because the larger ladies don't feel appreciated because men go for the more slim beings. At least in my thinking?

 

[FMA4ME]

Women are rather self conscious, so magazine and ad women can put a lot of stress on. Can see it in my girlfriend because she's pretty mini being a foot and 50lbs smaller than me, not quite like many magazine ladies...

I think the fat thing is because the larger ladies don't feel appreciated because men go for the more slim beings. At least in my thinking?

Yeah but a lot of admiration for fit models is because we understand how hard it is to get to look like that. Now overweight women want the same attention without the effort? In the context of SI Swimsuit!?? No.

 

[Hendre]

Yeah but a lot of admiration for fit models is because we understand how hard it is to get to look like that. Now overweight women want the same attention without the effort? In the context of SI Swimsuit!?? No.

That is true. If a guy likes big women then okay, but if he likes something else what's the problem? It's pretty stupid, you can't force anyone to like anything

I think the problem many women have with cover ladies isn't necessarily the fot body, it's more certain genetics involved with certain sizes that can be sensitive...

 

[Warborg]

I like small woman

 

[PYRU]

I like small woman

And I can not lie...you other brothers can't deny

 

[PYRU]

Haha! I used to think that way. I've figured out you got to get them when they're skinny bc then they fill in/out nicely. You start out with one too big, ....no good.

I was told that for yrs. I went both ways 1st wife was thicker/older new is skinnier/younger.

I would advise the skinnier younger route. They fill out really nice with a little relationship weight lol...getting snowed in is a ***** though. I 'm about to have 3 in diapers

 

[skjl47]

so magazine and ad women can put a lot of stress on. Can see it in my girlfriend because she's pretty mini being a foot and 50lbs smaller than me, not quite like many magazine ladies...

Hello; First is that 99% of us humans have things that make us less than perfect. Only a few win the genetic lottery in terms of physical beauty. On op of that the movies and magazines use tricks to hide and modify any small flaws even the 1% have.
Does your girl look good to you? If so tell her she is just as good as the magazine women in your eyes.
I always knew I was a "settle for" in terms of looks. The first hint was when small children would hide behind their mothers.

I think the fat thing is because the larger ladies don't feel appreciated because men go for the more slim beings. At least in my thinking?

Hello; Me thinks you are correct. I was never attracted to fat women. I had a girl friend who looked good in here early 30's. She showed back up one day at 40+ and big. I just did not see the appeal any more.
I get that each person can decide about how much and what they eat. I don't expect to be attractive to anyone now that I am old and heavier than I like. For that matter old is unattractive also.

admiration for fit models is because we understand how hard it is to get to look like that.

hello; Right on. Bing fit takes work. A fit woman or man looks good just by being fit. There is always a bag for the face.

overweight women want the same attention without the effort?

hello; Well stated. That was what I was driving at with the -are they trying to change traditional norms again- comments a few posts back.
I do not accept men in girls bathrooms. I do not go for the new definitions marriage, legal or not. I do not like that I can go to a Porsche or BMW dealers lot and not find a single manual transmission. ( They fake us out by calling some of the new shiftable automatics manuals now.)

I get that some big women have pretty faces and while they are still very young are somewhat in proportion. Check back with them when they get into their 30's +.

 

[skjl47]

think the problem many women have with cover ladies isn't necessarily the fot body, it's more certain genetics involved with certain sizes that can be sensitive...

hello; I guess you are trying hard to be PC about this, but you lost me here. There are more losers in the genetic lottery in terms of looks. Most of us get on with our lives and use the other genetic advantages we may have.

 

[Hendre]

Hello; First is that 99% of us humans have things that make us less than perfect. Only a few win the genetic lottery in terms of physical beauty. On op of that the movies and magazines use tricks to hide and modify any small flaws even the 1% have.
Does your girl look good to you? If so tell her she is just as good as the magazine women in your eyes.
I always knew I was a "settle for" in terms of looks. The first hint was when small children would hide behind their mothers

Yeah she's amazing to me, looks good in the morning and her mother still looks great so I should still be good in 30 years haha.

Advertisement is meaaaan. It's either roids, Photoshop, silicon or a nasty combination of all 3

Poor you haha.

hello; Right on. Bing fit takes work. A fit woman or man looks good just by being fit. There is always a bag for the face.

Took me 2 years to go from 160lbs chubby to 155lbs really fit. Get someone you don't need a bag for lol

Hello; Me thinks you are correct. I was never attracted to fat women. I had a girl friend who looked good in here early 30's. She showed back up one day at 40+ and big. I just did not see the appeal any more.
I get that each person can decide about how much and what they eat. I don't expect to be attractive to anyone now that I am old and heavier than I like. For that matter old is unattractive also

Curves should be inwards, not outwards...

hello; I guess you are trying hard to be PC about this, but you lost me here. There are more losers in the genetic lottery in terms of looks. Most of us get on with our lives and use the other genetic advantages we may have.

I'm referring to women being upset about the ladies with say a bustier chest or curvier hips or the sort. Not about the fat shenanigans.

Don't be envious of the neighbors fancy house, work on your own sort of thing...