I know.....your right Ken. He is gonna grow up to be a lala. He is also kinda small cause he is at my brothers house and doesnt get the "gangster" feeding schedule. Im gonna try and grab a few more come the new year. With all these pairs popping up in the US it should allow the price to drop a bit. I can also grab a few from a different set of parents so IF i am able to breed them in a few years i wont have inbred fishAre you kidding? Xingus are meaner than hell. There known to kill other cichlas. I think it's because you only got one. The only child syndrome. All your fault .