In my case....I learned the hard way....when starting the hobby trying to keep livebearers in my soft tap water. They just didn't do well at all. It wasn't until I started doctoring the water that I was able to get them to thrive.
Professorjimjam...my case is a bit different, as I had nearly zero KH out of the tap. Your example is unique, because you are experiencing a drop off.
I would use a 5 gallon bucket, fill it up with source water, drop in an airstone....and measure both the KH and PH after 48 hours. Use that as your baseline. Then you can experiment by adding a given amount of baking soda (lets arbitrarily say 1 teaspoon)....wait an hour, and test both again. It should give you an idea of scale, if you plan to use baking soda with water changes.
The crushed coral has really "stabilized" the tank, and prevented any KH or PH drop.....and then I simply try to match it (just in the ballpark) when doing water changes.