So just like that no answer you just say that it’s a he??? I just found out that I have a common/EBJD and that the spangles early on men male not female I am completely confused as I see all round looking fins yet now besides that tail fin are pointing as if they grew from round to a point and I am so confused as she had a name and I was not prepared to call her a he so now I’m seriously upset and confusedThanks all for the help!
I actually got him at PetCo of all places?! But he’s an amazing fish.
I really appreciate the help again, everyone.
Ok thanks ? !!!! Yea I even just started to transition to a my female name now it just doesn’t feel right to use either name now LOL ? I’m like crap I just want to name my baby boy now I want to call him baby boy for now LOL ? o well I will find something else I like!! But yea transitioning from She to He is going to be a tongue twister for a bit!!!The fins don’t always come in till later. On a lot of cichlids it isn’t the most reliable way either.
Venting typically is the most accurate.
For the head and lack of strong bearding, I’d say male on yours.
It is always weird when you get in the habit of calling a pet one gender and finding out it’s the other. I thought my crested gecko was a male for 2 years until I found eggs lol
I’ll tag @duanes - he’s very good with this sort of thing.