You can call me judgemental and elitist as much as you like,pal.My view on this won't change.
I never said all cichlids will do well in the confines of a tank with a mate.I am saying if the cichlid has to to be kept in solitary confinement for life due to tank restrictions or its aggressive tendencies,then choose another species.
This is my view on it,my opinion that's all.I am not trying to be elitist, I'm just sharing my opinion.Not sure why that ruffles your feathers so much but it obviously does.
You obviously don't have a problem keeping a fish alone for life,Good for you.I on the other hand do.To me it does not seem like much of a life for the fish.Never being able to mate or experience anything other than its keeper dropping in food.Regardless of its habits in the wild.This to me is not much of an existance.
I have never said all fish should be put in a tank with a mate,obviously you can't do that with all species.I am saying that I choose species that I can do that with.That's my view on it which I am entitled to just like you are entitled to yours.
As far as the plant pot and finger chasing comments go,your two sensitive mate.chill out.