O.k. im starting to lose faith in my fish keeping. I have a friend who takes the worst care of his fish. he has a jag, JD, Pbass, and an oscar in a 55! And he never test the water rarely ever does water changes and the little bastards are growing like weeds. how can this be? I keep up on my fish care pretty religously (sorry if spelling is wrong im very hungover) and my cichlids seem to be gorwing so slowly! please restore my faith