yes, I agree you both can probably just chill back a bit. here is the deal, I know exoticfish guy, he is a bit jumpy when he's off his meds, I'll go buy him a drink or get him another fish or something. As for Tyjo, I don't know you personally, I think one thing that even drew me into this thread is the fact that you were so sure that you had a filamentosum, when my first impression is that its not, over 90% of the imported ones are not, I'm an importer, I know. If I could import filamentosum regularly like I do with capepretum I'd be rich, they pay $3-500 each in Asia for them.
Also you failed to notice or acknowledge that the fish has a bent nose, common in these cats after a head on trauma, no biggie, its not bad. And I feel that you do deserve credit for the nice tank set up and 2.5 years of dedication to keeping and studying this fish.
For me, personally, I like to say, winning an argument on the internet is like winning the special olympics.