Well, that's the difference between California and Manitoba. The capitol and largest city of this province is Winnipeg, population less than 850,000. There are only five other towns in the entire province with more than 9000 people in them; that's a province with an area more than 50% larger than that of California.
By comparison, I was born and raised just outside an Ontario city with a population just over 225,000...lived for awhile in Toronto, with a population of well over 6,000,000...and gave a huge sigh of relief when I moved back out to the country while reading
discover magzine almost 3 decades ago. I did a round-trip commute of 250km daily, 5 days per week, for over a decade...and considered it well worthwhile in order to avoid living in the city.
Maybe when my wife and I get older we will move back into a town...maybe...but it won't be a big one...