Hello; It use to be this; "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me."I was growing up it was being pushed around and them taking something that belonged to me.
All the jawing that went on was just window dressing. The only thing that really mattered was if things got physical. The taunting and egging on did not count much.
There was also a big difference between a fight and a bully. If you fought back you were no longer being bullied, you were standing up.
A bully usually picked out some one smaller or weaker to go after. If the smaller person did not stand up more was to come.
Not a good system in ways but the rules were easy enough to follow.