it is not a philosophy, it is plain truth. i am not telling him to not try and feed the snake. i am telling him that as long as he keeps trying to feed and has the snake in a comfortable adequate environment there shouldnt be a problem.....of course if the snake doesnt eat within a few months you can force feed it if you wish to take that route. i have had snakes for most of my life and have had them(especially my ball python) fast for as long as 4 months....some may even go up to a year......being that it is a new snake i am assuming that it had already begun feeding at the store he bought it from. if not they shouldnt have sold it.....given time his snake should begin eating. if there are no signs of trouble.....ie mouth rot, respiratory infection, etc...then there shouldnt be a problem with it being anything other than adjusting to its new environment......so i hope i didnt sound rude. this was in no way meant to be interpreted that way. just my 2 cents on the matter, give it time and it SHOULD be fine. whats the term for it hypochondriac, someone who worries too much????