IF running with an auxilary pump why wouldn't you run the new water down to the bottom of the reactor as far away from the drain as possible? I ran mine to the bottom then cut the PVC at a similar angle to the barrel so it would basically "circle" the barrell, should achieve the most dwell time this way.
KNH- I don't think you missed the boat. If it isn't broke why fix? I still use big ol wet/dries but I just feed mine with the water draining out of the reactors. I had troubles keeping the bio in my wet/dries clean. I'd tear them down a few times a year to clean and what I was getting out of them pushed me towards reactors. I figured I better jump in and get my feet wet, as I wanted a single filtration system capable of handling every ray I own full grown, and knew it would take a long time to get it right. Still not right after a year, but getting closer.
I might be wrong but in my eyes I'd see a wet dry as a dead bio trap. Bio dies where does it go? In a reactor you're able to clean out all that dead bio by cracking a valve. Some people believe this dead bio "mum" is perfectly harmless. All I know is I seem to have less troubles after not seeing that crap in my wet/dries anymore.
Miguel, I see now reason that wouldn't work. Just need to figure out how to keep the media in there. Google "Kaldness" for more info on K1,K3 and chips. Surely you should be able to find some. IF not reach out to your fellow MFKers, if someone needs to ship you some then you gotta do what you gotta do. As far as airstones, cheap ones do clog so keep in mind they may need serviced down the road, so might not want to glue them in there or anything.