wood, FG, and cables, to make a 16-18k gallon tank...
It'll be cheaper/safer/quicker/easier to use concrete...
You are trying to build something big, cheaply, which will end up being a disaster.
The cost of the size of beams alone to build the frame of the tank, to support the weight/pressure of the water would be immense. Think of building a boat, but having it hold water, and no osmosis to equalize the pressure...
Listen to the experts and through this 'learning experience' as you put it, do it right the first time.
If you want big frames that would be removable, get those giant containers like that one guy did. Or else build it out of concrete, because wood and FG aren't going to work with something so big.