Black piranhas (Serrasalmus Rhombeus) can only be kept as a single specimen in the home aquarium. They can reach at least 15" (although it's unlikely in a tank) and take a LOONG time getting there!
As for telling genders, the only way you can really tell, is if you get {VERY} lucky like Demjor19 and Karajo and your Rhom decides to lay eggs! It takes a lot of hard work, and great care to get them to that point, as they have to be extra happy and healthy to do so.
Also, Kingofkings has a fine example of the species. If you can, I would suggest hunting down pictures of his monster as well as Demjor's.
If you have the patience, I would suggest growing them out from a baby, nothing is better than looking at a massive and impressive animal and saying "I raised that myself!!" If not, they are available at larger sizes, such as 10+ inches in length...they get pricier as you go up.
If you want a group of piranhas, your best best is one of the Pygocentrus species, Nattereri* (Redbelly piranha, or RBP), Cariba (Caribe) or Piraya.
*an extra big thanks again to oddball for correcting the spelling of the RBP species name!