Lol, i have patience...
As for the question...
Castle is the pricey goto option most people like for motor and ESC, although go to a reputable dealer if you go with them as there are a lot of fakes...
The sort of mid range goto brand from a smaller company would be Hobbywing, thats what i currently use in my setup and honestly cant complain...
Then there is also another brand called GoolRC or CoolRC cant remember exactly, but they are supposed to be decent for the price, but as i’ve never run them personally i cant really give you first hand feedback...
Last option would be the scour places like ebay for really local china brand motors and ESC... some i’ve heard are pretty good but honestly cant remember rhe brand names as they can be quite tricky to remember...