Yikes! This is not good news. You, sir, have stick-to-it-iveness in spades. When you were "gently" woken up with the news of this latest problem...were any more bones broken during the process?
Yes, you definitely want the slowest-setting silicone when working alone, and most especially on a large tank...and extra-most-especially when using tape at the the seams. Tape can make for the absolute nicest-looking corner beads, but only if you can remove it neatly and immediately after application of the silicone. If you let the stuff begin to set-up, so it starts pulling itself out of position as you peel the tape...you're doomed.
Have you considered not using tape at all? Just lay the bead down and immediately run over it once with your finger, or maybe one of those commercially-available tools for forming/shaping the bead. It's an art more than a science, but it can produce wonderful results, and if there is a spot or two where the stuff spreads out too far you can always use a straight-edge and razor blade to clean it up afterwards.
I have also seen folks apply the tape carefully beforehand, lay on an excess of silicone, and then allow it to completelly set/cure before carefully using a straight edge and razor to cut along the inside edge of the tape all the way around the whole interior. Then, when you pull off the tape, you remove everything beyond the cut, and have a very thick bead with a sharply delineated edge on both sides. From the inside of the empty tank, it's not particularly attractive...but from the outside it's barely noticeable. Never tried this myself, but theres no denying that it can work, and work well.