Checked out that uarus too... they do look purdy. I'm kind of sold on the Pearsei's though, simply because they're almost completely herbivorous. I'm sure this goes a long way on influencing their tank mate compatibility. Its nice to know that there are other omnivorous cichlids that will get along with smaller fish too. But these experiences seem to differ from one fish/fishkeeper to the next.
So i'm going to minimize my gamble and stick with the pearsei for now. But thanks for all the suggestions. I'm planning on getting a couple elephant nose too as they seem pretty cool.
Now to just find them for sale. Cichlid connections has a 50 dollar minimum so I would either have to get them initially bigger than I want or get more than I want just to satisfy the minimum. I found a couple local pet stores that say they get them in everyone once in while. So I'm pretty much in a holding pattern here.
Unless someone wants to go in on a purchase of them...