Yeah man I wouldnt stress out too much. They are some super hardy fishes and it doesnt bother me leaving for 3-5 days and him not eating. Might not be how everyone does it but if hes not "hungry" and out waiting for food, I dont feed
Lol, thanks for the reassurance. I have no problem cutting back feeding now that he's grown out of the starving and emaciated waif he started out as. But, man, this fish is weird.
He now splits his time about 50/50 between patrolling around the tank and hiding out in a cave. When on patrol, if I offer food he will eat; when he is in hiding, it seems to mean that he isn't interested in food and I don't bother. Typically, if he is patrolling he will rush towards the feeding corner as I open the hatch, looking so ravenous that I am always careful to prevent him jumping out, and I certainly wouldn't dip my finger into the water at that point.
Except...when I drop in the food, which at this time of year is usually some floating pellets, with occasionally a frozen/thawed Rosy Red or two...he lunges at it, but stops dead at the last second and examines it minutely before grabbing it. I swear that it looks as though he is suspecting that I might be trying to poison him and he wants to carefully check out whatever I offer. After the first piece is swallowed the rest are eaten without hesitation. Perhaps this is a reaction to the switch back to mainly pellets, after a summer of a richly varied diet of insects, worms and other natural goodies?
Another change in his behaviour appeared after the last time I worked in his tank. He had been patrolling, I offered a fairly large meal, and after he ate it I removed the tank cover and did a major rescape; I removed a lot of moss, ruthlessly thinned out the duckweed, removed some smaller caves and hidey-holes that were now too small for him, did a complete inside glass-cleaning, siphoned the bottom and did a typical 80-90% water change. A lot of commotion for a short time, and he hid in a concrete pipe the entire time. When finished, his tank still had several secure hiding spots and a fair bit of greenery but was much more open than it had been.
That was over a month ago. I expected him to be his normal self the next day. Nope! He is still very skittish after all this time. He charges to the feeding port, to be sure...but too sudden a move on my part will send him undercover, and when that happens even food won't immediately lure him out. This is very unlike his old self; that fish was completely bold and unafraid.
With much of his moss gone, he no longer has huge thickets into which he can retire and then lurk with only his head visible as he once did. His current favourite resting position is atop the large sponge filter in the centre of his tank...but again, he is much more fearful than he had been and a wrong action on my part can send him into hiding. He acts like a fish that was purchased a week or two ago, rather than one who has been in the same tank for 9 months. It took him weeks to really settle in and become confident when I first got him; it now seems to be taking another period of at least a few weeks to recover his composure from a tank-cleaning!
I'd normally be concerned about a sudden change in behaviour...in any fish...thinking that it might be a sign of some problem. I don't think that's the case here; I've just never seen a fish take so long to get comfortable and unafraid. Still a very cool fish; he's in the 6 - 7 inch range, and I have been toying with the idea of moving him to a 70-gallon tank but worry about how long he will take to recover from the shock of a move.