Would this be appropriate for the return to the tank ?
http://www.amazon.com/U-Tube-Directional-Return-inch/dp/B007Y7PATI/ref=pd_sim_199_3?ie=UTF8&dpID=21BeRd+HhLL&dpSrc=sims&preST=_AC_UL160_SR160,160_&refRID=19Z1FW4CVVC9CAQAT6A0
Yes, that looks made for the return to go OVER and IN you tank and should work. From the outlet of the pump, you could T/split and run two of those for the return. You can even design to have multiple returns, but I would think two would be sufficient.
Also, think about where/how the return will be and make sure you are able to break the siphon when your return pump is off (to avoid sump overflow). Some drill a small hole (1/8"?) at the loc-line to do that. I use a check valve AND my return is at the tank surface so my sump can accommodate the water backflow (in case my check valve fails).